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Ever wondered how women define a man as successful?
Well, you’re in for an exciting ride. We’re about to reveal 7 things that define a successful man, from a woman’s perspective.
Now, keep in mind, that success means different things to different people.
There are some girls who are only interested in your money & the lifestyle you can provide for them.
Most girls though, are genuine and consider the bellow signs as markers of success.
So, let’s jump right in and find out what makes a successful man from a woman’s point of view!
01 Confidence
A few years ago, I went to a friend’s birthday party. When we arrived, there were lots of people already there, but one guy stood out to me immediately.
He wasn’t particularly good-looking, but his confidence was on point. I noticed him from across the room.
And when we finally met, his confidence was the reason I agreed to go on a date with him.
Confidence is a key quality of a successful man. It’s not about being flashy or arrogant but having the self-assuredness to handle challenges and social situations gracefully.
It is very attractive to women and is definitely one thing that defines a man as successful.
Confidence is not something you can fake.
It is effortless and relaxed; it is everything about you.
The last thing we women want is someone who tries to show his ‘worth’ at all times or has to win every conversation.
It’s a quiet self-assurance that whispers, not screams.
02 A goal-orientated nature
Most women define men who have goals and are driven in their pursuits as successful.
This determination can be very attractive in career, hobbies, or personal goals.
Having goals shows that you have an appetite for more and are not afraid to go after it.
This is something that women really value, and allowing a woman to see this in you helps her to define you as successful.
Showing a woman you are goal-orientated is as simple as talking about some hobbies or projects you are working on and sharing some goals you are working towards.
Remember to lead with humility and be careful not to brag or make it all about you.
03 Independence
When we see that a guy is independent, we automatically consider him successful.
Life is tough, and to be independent is no easy feat.
There are many signs that a guy is independent, from having his own place/living alone to owning a nice car or enjoying nice holidays.
I know these things might sound materialistic and stereotypical of what girls are looking for.
However, they are signs of independence and therefore, success because they are small luxuries afforded to those who have achieved at least some level of success.
04 Being in good physical shape
We all know that in order to be successful, you need to be hard-working, consistent, and disciplined.
The same applies to being in shape. There is no shortcut to success when it comes to being in great physical shape; you cannot pay anyone to do it for you.
Therefore, any guy who prioritizes his own physical well-being is defined as successful in the eyes of most women.
This one speaks for itself. If you are in good physical shape, she will see it.
However, a common mistake many guys make is to tell girls how often they go to the gym or how many reps they can do.
We don’t care about that; it comes across as egotistical and arrogant.
If you are in good shape, we will see it. There is no need to shout it from the rooftop; that’s a big turn-off for most women.
05 Generosity
Generosity is one of the things that defines a man as successful in the eyes of a woman.
Being generous with time, money, and kindness shows us that a man has more than he needs. And that he is willing to give to others.
A gesture of generosity, no matter how small, can go a long way. It is not about how much money you have but your willingness to give to others that is important.
There are many ways to show generosity.
An easy one is to pick up the bill after the first date or tip the waiter well.
Old-fashioned? I know. But it makes a difference. Genuine girls don’t want guys to pay for everything but they don’t want someone who is generous.
06 A sense of humor
A sense of humor may not seem like an obvious sign of success at first glance.
However, a sense of humor is crucial for a successful guy.
It shows that he is not bound by his ego or out to prove something.
Instead, he doesn’t take himself too seriously.
Making a few jokes and lightening the mood should do the trick here.
Don’t be afraid to be the butt of the joke, too. It shows a guy is comfortable with himself.
Put your date up on a pedestal and take the hit.
07 Passion
When a woman meets a passionate man, it is infectious.
A man who is truly passionate about something in his life, makes you feel like anything is possible.
And it leaves us thinking, ‘that is a successful guy, with so much passion and zest for life; there is no way he can be anything but successful’
If you are passionate about something, your passion will automatically shine through when you talk about it.
If you have a passion, however, be careful not to derail the date by talking nonstop about it. There is a healthy balance.
And if you haven’t found your passion yet, that is okay, too. You can be honest and talk about some things you’ve tried.
Don’t fake passion just to impress her. She will see straight through it.
The bottom line
Success is not always about money and status, for women. We define a man as successful based on the potential that we see in him to be a suitable partner.
And yes, financial success can play a role, but it is not the only thing to consider.
Therefore, if you haven’t had your big break yet, don’t worry.