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Have you ever felt an inexplicable attraction from a woman without knowing why? Maybe you’ve noticed her drawn to you or another guy, even when it doesn’t make logical sense.
Why does this happen? How can women develop feelings even when they consciously resist them?
Experiences like these hint at the hidden world driving our feelings of romantic attraction. That hidden world is all about emotional reactions—emotional reactions we don’t consciously control.
Falling in love is not something women choose to do. It’s more like getting thirsty. You don’t choose to get thirsty. You just notice it. And the stronger your thirst becomes, the harder it gets to ignore.
What if I told you there is a kind of relationship “thirst” that women experience? A kind of thirst that’s impossible to quench on their own.
Would you like to know what it is that women truly desire in a relationship?
The Desire for Protection Instinct
The answer is simple yet profound: women desire a hero in their lives—a man who can protect and take care of them. This deep-seated desire is what I call the “desire for protection instinct.”
Here’s why the woman in your life can’t tell you what she craves most from her relationship with you…
She might feel embarrassed to admit the truth. And that’s because admitting to this desire actually moves her farther away from the goal.
Why Women Desire a Hero
Nothing fuels a woman’s attraction more than a relationship where she feels protected and cared for. She wants to see her partner as a protector—someone who is strong, reliable, and ready to take care of her.
If she doesn’t feel this sense of protection, she feels vulnerable and less connected. This turns off her romantic drive.
The truth is, women have a deep-seated desire for a hero in their lives. Someone who makes them feel safe and cherished. This desire for protection is not about being weak or incapable. It’s about feeling secure and valued.
The Subconscious Drive
And here’s the secret: she can’t just ask for it. It only works if she feels you genuinely provide that sense of protection and care.
But here’s the good news. It’s both fun and easy to let her feel protected once you know how to set yourself up as her hero.
Just find ways to show her you’re there for her. I’m not talking about being an action hero like Thor, but you do need to be her hero.
There’s an art to doing that in a way that makes her crazy about you.
Trigger Her Protection Instinct
As a relationship expert, I have seen what works and what doesn’t. But what it all comes down to is this: You need to trigger her protection instinct.
Accomplish that, and you’ll be astonished by what happens next. She’ll become more loving, more attentive, and much more interested in a committed, long-term relationship. You will never want things to go back to the way they were.
The protection instinct is a subconscious drive to gravitate toward people who make her feel safe. But it’s amplified in her romantic relationships.
Some ideas really are life-changing. And for romantic relationships, this is one of them. That’s why I highly recommend focusing on this powerful aspect of human behavior.
The Power of Feeling Protected
Women don’t need someone to rescue them. Especially in this day and age. Yet here’s the ironic truth: Men still need someone to protect and care for.
This one tiny difference in male and female genetics creates a BIG difference in what attracts women to the opposite sex. She feels drawn to any man who allows her to feel protected.
Here’s the really cool thing about this. She won’t even know why she feels so drawn to you. Which is why you can use this method under the radar. It triggers attraction at a subconscious level.
She’ll feel the undeniable tug on her emotions. But if her friends ask her why she’s so crazy about you, she won’t be able to put it into words.
There is a hidden world driving our feelings of attraction. No doubt about it. But we now have the power to see one powerful part of that hidden world. And it’s something you can actually control.
What You Can Do to Trigger This Instinct
It’s not something only chemists can see, like blood levels of the bonding hormone, oxytocin. Rather, it’s something you can see all around you once you learn to spot it.
It’s a pattern of interaction between men and women. Something relationship experts have always known to exist, but something they failed to recognize as the powerful trigger it is. A trigger that drives her thirst for companionship and protection.
How do you use this trigger to build passion and romance?
Well, the easiest way to trigger her protection instinct is to translate your actions into a language that speaks to her natural drive to feel safe and cared for. Her desire to be loved and protected.
If that sounds like fun to you, consider this a valuable relationship enhancement tool. It’s something you can learn once, but then use for the rest of your life.
You already have the capacity to protect and care for someone. Why not learn how to translate those actions into behaviors that trigger her protection instinct?
Then relax into the warmth and passion she is only capable of showing once you’ve triggered her protection instinct.
A woman who knows she is safe and cherished will be crazy about you.
5 Practical Tips to Trigger the Desire for Protection Instinct
Triggering a woman’s “desire for protection instinct” can deepen her attraction to you and strengthen your relationship. Here are five practical tips to make her feel secure, cherished, and irresistibly drawn to you:
1. Be Punctual and Keep Your Promises
Reliability is key. Always show up on time and follow through on your commitments. This builds trust and shows that you are dependable.
Example: If you tell her you’ll pick her up at 7 PM for dinner, be there at 7 PM. If you promise to help her with something, make sure you do it.
2. Actively Listen and Offer Solutions
When she shares her concerns or problems, listen attentively and offer practical solutions. This shows you care and are willing to help.
Example: If she’s stressed about a deadline at work, listen to her concerns and then suggest ways you can help, like bringing her dinner so she doesn’t have to cook.
3. Plan and Lead
Take the initiative in planning activities and making decisions. This demonstrates leadership and relieves her of the burden of always having to decide.
Example: Instead of asking her what she wants to do on the weekend, plan a fun outing. Say, “I’ve planned a picnic at the park this Saturday. I’ll handle everything; you just need to relax and enjoy.”
4. Show Small Acts of Physical Affection
Regularly engage in small acts of physical affection to reinforce your protective presence.
Example: When crossing the street, lightly guide her with your hand on her back. Hold her hand while walking, or give her a reassuring hug when she’s had a tough day.
5. Defend Her in Social Situations
Stand up for her if someone is being disrespectful or unfair. This shows you have her back and are willing to protect her.
Example: If someone makes a rude comment towards her, calmly but firmly say, “That’s not acceptable,” and change the subject or move away from the situation.
By implementing these practical tips, you’ll create an environment where she feels protected, valued, and more connected to you. Remember, the goal is to make her feel secure and cherished, which will naturally deepen her attraction to you.