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Are you sick and tired of dating beta males?
Would you prefer to find a successful man who has his sh*t together?
Look:
A high-value man is a hot commodity in the dating market.
So if you want to attract such a man, you need to know what he is looking for in a woman.
I consider myself a high-value man, so I’m well qualified to give you a detailed explanation of what a high-value man wants in a woman.
I’ve also studied human psychology and relationships for over ten years.
In this article, I will reveal what a high-value man wants in a woman and how to attract him.
Let’s go.
1) He Will Want Her to Have High Self-Esteem
Folk wisdom suggests self-esteem and confidence are highly attractive for both men and women, and research has backed that up.
According to a study, men and women rate confidence as a very attractive trait in a potential partner.
A high-value man is no different. He wants to show his partner off to the world proudly.
But he might find it difficult to show his love for a woman who cannot love herself.
If a woman can carry herself confidently and doesn’t let anyone disrespect her, he will greatly value her.
He wants to know that there’s a challenge and reward to dating you without feeling like you depend on him for everything.
He wants a woman whose confidence allows her to take care of herself and gives him the thrill of chasing after her.
The thrill of the chase is a very real thing.
Relationship expert Dr. Pam Spurr sums it up best:
“Almost everyone – men and women – put a certain added ‘value’ on to something that’s not easily attainable. This is why can feel so good to save up for something like a special dress or handbag – and when you get it just feels priceless.
“It’s the same with sex and the classic chase – many men find the chase exciting and it strikes their ego to feel they’re the one who is finally going to get her attention – and into bed. Add to this the fact that men are very goal focused and an elusive goal can seem all that much more interesting.”
So make sure you’re confident, have your sh*t together, and don’t “need him”.
Add a bit of mystery about you, and don’t give it all away too quickly. A high-value man will be intrigued and will want to chase you.
2) He Wants to Feel Like a Hero Around Her
I’m not saying he needs to wear a cape and fight crime at night, but every man wants to feel like a hero to his woman.
This is actually based on a psychological concept called the “hero instinct”.
A man has an innate drive to be a purveyor and provider for his partner.
“Men have an innate, biological need to step up to the plate for the woman in their life. They want to be their best and take care of others around them, especially the women that they love.” – Tina Fey, Love Connection.
The good news?
You can trigger this instinct by asking him for minor favors that will make him feel useful.
This includes washing your car, carrying your heavy suitcase, and standing by your side to keep you safe from the outside world.
If you allow him to help you out with these menial jobs and ask for his advice on critical decisions, it will be a way of triggering his hero instinct.
He will feel respected, admired, and valuable.
I can back this up myself. When my wife asks me for advice on something I am an expert in, it makes me feel amazing. Passion ignites because I feel valuable and helpful. I feel like a man of substance.
The best bit?
Once the hero instinct is triggered, he will likely commit to you over the long haul.
3) He Wants Someone Who Will Grow Along With Him
A high-value man has attained his position through working hard at what he’s good at.
Part of that journey involved constant learning and growth.
As such, he will also want to be with a partner who can appreciate his work ethic and commitment, which will help him grow further.
This doesn’t mean he wants servitude from a woman.
On the contrary, he wants someone who inspires him every day by being the best version of herself.
He wants to live a life with her where he feels like he can grow side by side with her.
Nothing is more beautiful than two people accepting responsibility for loving themselves, inspiring each other to greatness, encouraging each other to be their best selves, realizing their potential, and embracing full human consciousness.
In short:
To date a high-value man, you need to be high-value yourself.
Work on improving yourself, and you will attract him.
4) He Wants a Woman Who Is Kind, Compassionate, and Isn’t Malicious in Her Intentions
One of the most attractive traits of any woman is her empathy and ability to show kindness towards others.
In fact, according to a survey conducted in India, men prefer women for their kindness rather than their attractive looks quotient.
A high-value man will want to date a woman who is genuinely nice to everyone.
A woman who empathizes with people’s struggles.
He would want a partner who treats everybody well (not just him) and doesn’t look down on others who weren’t as fortunate as herself.
Similarly, this also means being genuine to him.
A high-value man doesn’t want to waste time playing games.
He would rather have you voice your opinion to his face rather than hide malicious intentions.
Ideally, he wants a woman willing to sort out problems with him together civilly without insulting each other.
When you can be honest with each other, you can also trust each other.
Michael McNuty, a certified relationship therapist, says “trust is a major trait people seek.”
“Trust in a relationship is not only about transparency. It’s a sense of investment in the relationship. It’s a sense of commitment to one another. It’s a sense that both partners are true to themselves, while having each other’s backs.
“They are honest about what they want and need, and committed to working through their differences in ways that are fair to both of them.”
5) He Wants a Woman Who Doesn’t Treat Him as Her Only Source of Happiness
This is big. No real man worth his grain of salt would be attracted to an overly clingy and needy woman.
While a high-value man does want to be there for his partner and make her the happiest woman on the planet, he doesn’t want him to be her only source of happiness.
He wants her to have ambitions, interests, passions, hobbies, and a social life outside the context of the relationship.
He wants a strong and independent woman. A woman who is capable of standing on her own two feet.
I know that’s what I’m attracted to. I don’t want to feel like I’m responsible for someone else’s happiness.
If I’m my wife’s sole reason for living, it becomes a bit too much.
It’s important to have your own life and then you can share your lives together.
This will make him value and appreciate his time with her even more than normal.
In short, he wants a woman who doesn’t look to external sources for her happiness but has self-driven motivations to attain it herself.
“Independent women are the most alluring to men. When a woman looks like she’s waiting to be asked out, it makes you wonder why she hasn’t been. On the other hand, if she’s happy with her independence, she doesn’t appear to be as accessible. She’s a challenge. It’s as if she is saying, ‘I don’t need to you to complete me, but you’re free to try’. She seems content with herself. Such a posiitve demeanor naturally draws others in.” – How To Find Your Soulmate without Losing Your Soul: 21 Secrets for Women, By Jason Evert, Crystalina Evert
6) He Wants a Woman Who Isn’t Afraid to Speak Her Mind
A high-value man will also want a woman with whom he can engage in deep intellectual conversations.
He’s probably tired of the yes-men in his life and wants a partner who will tell him what he needs to hear.
Pandering to him by filling his ears with sweet nothings may make him happy at the moment, but he’ll be disappointed when he realizes that you aren’t speaking your mind with him.
He’s also looking for a woman who will stand up for herself and express her viewpoints eloquently.
This is why high value man often want to date older women.
A woman who can be diplomatic in debates with him, agree to disagree, and be bold when asking him for something will command his respect.
Her confidence and ability to voice her thoughts will be appealing to him.
7) He Wants a Woman Who Can Inspire Other People
A high-value man wants a woman who can inspire him and others around her consistently.
He wants his breath taken away every day just watching her be a natural leader in her line of work.
A woman who doesn’t rest on her laurels and constantly pushes the people around her to discover the best versions of themselves.
A high-value man wants a woman to upgrade herself in different aspects of life that enable her to impact other people with value.
8) He Wants a Woman Who Is Sure of Herself and Knows Her Flaws
Contrary to popular belief, a high-value man doesn’t want a flawless woman.
He knows that there’s no such thing.
Rather he wants a partner who is sure of herself and knows her flaws.
He doesn’t want to a partner who uses him for an ego boost or leads him on.
Rather, she should know her strengths and weaknesses and what she truly wants.
He’s looking for a partner who prioritizes caring for herself, building on her strongholds while minimizing her blindspots.
He doesn’t want a woman who puts up a facade and a mask but is looking for authenticity in his partner.
He wants her honesty to be a source of encouragement to help him improve.
By being sure of herself and comfortable accepting her limitations, she presents herself from a position of strength that will captivate him.
9) He Wants a Woman Who’s a Great Listener
One can be sure that there’s nothing less attractive to a high-value man than a partner incapable of being a good listener.
She should be able to contribute to a conversation without hogging the attention entirely on herself.
An open-minded woman who consciously seeks differing opinions is attractive to a man.
It doesn’t matter even if she’s right or she knows she’s right; showcasing the willingness to listen to his side of the argument is sure to impress him.
10) He Wants a Woman Who Doesn’t Compare Him or Herself to Anyone Else
High-value men detest any form of comparison.
They believe that every person is unique, and comparing fishes to birds would only make a woman seem unappealing to him.
He doesn’t want her to compare him to other guys in a positive or negative light.
Likewise, he doesn’t want her to compare herself to other women.
A woman who can make the right decisions, be sure of herself, and maintain a healthy romantic relationship with him is the ideal partner for a high-value man.
11) He Wants a Passionate Woman and Will Love Him Unconditionally
A high-value man is naturally drawn toward women who are passionate and industrious.
He loves seeing his partner wake up with a spring in her step and remain motivated to achieve her goals.
She might not maintain the same energy level daily, but she’s consistent when executing her plans because she knows her goal is for the general good.
Another trait high-value men look out for is partners who can love them unconditionally.
Just as he wants to be her rock, he wants a woman he can lean on without the fear of judgment.
Society, as it is, has already put a plethora of expectations in his head, and being with someone who relieves him of his burdens and loves him for who he is will surely make him fall for you.
12) He Wants a Woman Who Can Command His Attention Without Saying a Word
A high-value man wants a woman who he can’t get enough of.
No matter how often he sees her, he’s always happy to see her again.
She awakes passion in him.
He wants the sight and smell of her to give him immense pleasure and excitement.
Of course, this is difficult to implement, but it’s all about embracing your sexy feminine energy.
Be a vocal and enthusiastic woman who’s always active, alert, and interested in every aspect of his life.
Of course, this is a rare trait in a partner, but it’s essential when looking for your Mr. Right.