Mal James

Mal is a blogger, entrepreneur, and teacher who is based between Europe and Asia. Knowing how difficult it can be for young men today, he helps them learn about manhood using his personal experiences, both his failures and his successes. Mal is always looking to help men through his posts on The Considered Man. When he has free time, he enjoys playing golf, working out, and traveling.

7 signs you are dealing with a pseudo intellectual

7 signs you are dealing with a pseudo intellectual

Look, we’re in the age where everyone’s got an opinion and a Wi-Fi connection to share it. But just because someone throws around big words or namedrops Nietzsche doesn’t make them a genius. Enter the pseudo-intellectual: a person playing dress-up with ideas they hardly understand. But why should you care? Because fake depth isn’t just …

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3 timeless lessons on happiness from anicent philospher Epicurus

3 timeless lessons on happiness from ancient philosopher Epicurus

In today’s fast-paced world, it’s easy to get lost in the chase for more—more money, more status, more stuff. But are these the keys to true happiness? Epicurus, an ancient Greek philosopher, didn’t think so. Living over 2,000 years ago, Epicurus taught about finding joy in simple things and the value of genuine connections. Do …

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5 Key Takeaways from 'Atomic Habits' to Revolutionize Your Routine

5 key takeaways from ‘Atomic Habits’ to revolutionize your routine

About a year ago, I stumbled upon a book that has since been etched into the cornerstones of my personal growth journey – Atomic Habits by James Clear. With its insightful analysis on human behavior and the power of daily habits, it’s no exaggeration to say it ranks among the most valuable reads in my …

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5 clarity-inducing practices from Ryan Holiday's “Stillness Is The Key"

5 clarity-inducing practices from Ryan Holiday’s “Stillness Is The Key”

In an age where distraction is just a ping away, finding peace can seem like a Herculean task.  Or at least, it did to me.  That was until a few years ago when I stumbled upon Ryan Holiday’s Stillness Is The Key. If you are a regular reader, you’ll know that I’ve been going back …

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5 lessons from the Japanese art of Ikigai to live a longer, healthier life

5 lessons from the Japanese art of Ikigai to live a longer, healthier life

So I read Ikigai: The Japanese Secret to a Long and Happy Life a few months ago. Admittedly, at first, I was somewhat critical, skeptical of whether a book could genuinely unlock the secrets to a long and happy life. However, as I delved deeper into its pages and began to embrace its wisdom, I …

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Feel like life’s a struggle? These 10 beliefs might be holding you back

Ever feel like you’re stuck in a rut? Sometimes, it’s not just circumstances; it’s our beliefs that hold us back. Many of us, especially us guys, hold onto ideas about success, masculinity, and what “should” be, even if they’re doing us more harm than good. If life seems tougher than you think it should, maybe …

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Living Fully: 4 Takeaways from "Essentialism" for a Richer Life

Living fully: 4 takeaways from “Essentialism” for a richer life

Ever feel like you’re hustling 24/7 but end up spinning your wheels? Like you’re buried under a mountain of ‘must-dos’ and ‘should-haves,’ yet at day’s end, there’s that nagging question: “What did I actually achieve?” I know. It’s exhausting. Enter Greg McKeown’s Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less. This isn’t about some minimalist lifestyle or …

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I re-read The 4 Hour Work Week; Here Are 4 Killer Takeaways That Are More Relevant Than Ever

I re-read the 4 hour work week; here are 4 killer takeaways that are more relevant than ever

Recently, I decided to read The Four Hour Work Week again. Guess what? Even with all the tech and constant rush these days, Tim Ferriss’s ideas are still really powerful. When I first picked up this book many years ago, I was doubtful. And in many ways, I was right to be; after all, I …

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