Mal James

Have you ever wondered if there’s a simple ‘secret’ to being happier and more productive? Well, I have. I am always wondering.  While I am far from perfect, through reading, and guidance from mentors, I’ve found a few habits that have been game-changers for me. I wouldn’t call them ‘secrets’ but they have been instrumental …

These 7 simple habits have made me happier and more productive; they might help you too Read More »

We often tell ourselves we’ve got all the time in the world to chase what we want. This is especially true for young people.  And why wouldn’t we? It makes us feel comfortable.  But here’s the unvarnished truth—we don’t have all the time in the world. Not even close.  Don’t believe me? Check out this …

If you want to live a full life, stop putting these 5 things off Read More »

Resilience. It’s that gritty, get-back-up-again quality that self-help gurus and motivational posters won’t shut up about. But while the world is busy fetishizing the idea of mental toughness, the truly resilient folks are out there quietly getting on with it. They’re not necessarily the loudest in the room or the most obvious success stories—they’re the …

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Said “yes” when every fiber of your being wanted to shout “no”? Or perhaps you’ve been the ever-patient listener, nodding along even when your time and patience were stretched thin? Ah, the classic “nice guy” syndrome. There’s nothing wrong with being kind, considerate, and respectful but let’s face it, many of us men have had …

5 Signs You Are Too Much of a “Nice Guy” (And How to Deal With It) Read More »

Here at The Considered Man, we often dive into deep conversations about personal growth, self-awareness, and the quest for meaning. But what often lurks in the shadows of our progress pulling us back? Regret. We’ve all been there: past mistakes that feel like burdens, memories that creep into our present, and that gnawing feeling that …

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Life’s a wild ride, isn’t it? One minute you’re learning to shave without butchering your face, and the next, you’re grappling with existential dread as the big 3-0 approaches. The world will shove countless “shoulds” down your throat — what success looks like, what milestones you should’ve hit by now, blah, blah, blah. But let’s …

8 things every man should do before 30 (for real success) Read More »

In our constant search for joy, comfort, and purpose, we often find ourselves pulled by the allure of what’s new—gadgets, trends, benchmarks of success. But amid the noise of the present, it’s easy to overlook that the core challenges we face have been tackled by generations before us. Age-old scripts, stone tablets, and traditions carry …

These 5 things make us miserable, according to ancient philosophers Read More »

Navigating our busy lives, it’s easy to get caught up in the whirlwind and lose sight of what truly matters. I’ve been there, especially juggling roles as a writer and business owner. However, a clear path emerges when I ask myself these eight questions.  If you’re feeling lost, stay with me. These simple prompts could …

I regain clarity & purpose by asking myself these 6 questions (you can too) Read More »