Mal James

Have you ever wondered if there’s a simple ‘secret’ to being happier and more productive? Well, I have. I am always wondering.  While I am far from perfect, through reading, and guidance from mentors, I’ve found a few habits that have been game-changers for me. I wouldn’t call them ‘secrets’ but they have been instrumental …

These 7 simple habits have made me happier and more productive; they might help you too Read More »

We often tell ourselves we’ve got all the time in the world to chase what we want.  And why wouldn’t we? It makes us feel comfortable.  But here’s the unvarnished truth—we don’t have all the time in the world. Not even close.  Don’t believe me? Check out this calculator, which converts how much time we …

If you want to live a full life, stop putting these 5 things off Read More »

Said “yes” when every fiber of your being wanted to shout “no”? Or perhaps you’ve been the ever-patient listener, nodding along even when your time and patience were stretched thin? Ah, the classic “nice guy” syndrome. There’s nothing wrong with being kind, considerate, and respectful but let’s face it, many of us men have had …

5 Signs You Are Too Much of a “Nice Guy” (And How to Deal With It) Read More »

Here at The Considered Man, we often dive into deep conversations about personal growth, self-awareness, and the quest for meaning. But what often lurks in the shadows of our progress pulling us back? Regret. We’ve all been there: past mistakes that feel like burdens, memories that creep into our present, and that gnawing feeling that …

4 ways to come to peace with our past mistakes Read More »

Life’s a wild ride, isn’t it? One minute you’re learning to shave without butchering your face, and the next, you’re grappling with existential dread as the big 3-0 approaches. The world will shove countless “shoulds” down your throat — what success looks like, what milestones you should’ve hit by now, blah, blah, blah. But let’s …

8 things every man should do before 30 (for real success) Read More »

In our constant search for joy, comfort, and purpose, we often find ourselves pulled by the allure of what’s new—gadgets, trends, benchmarks of success. But amid the noise of the present, it’s easy to overlook that the core challenges we face have been tackled by generations before us. Age-old scripts, stone tablets, and traditions carry …

These 5 things make us miserable, according to ancient philosophers Read More »